What I Loved About Last Week 19th Ed.

So, I'm reviewing my list of what I loved about last week, and I'm like "did those things really just happen last week?"  I know I'm a little off, because I'm not posting till Thursday, but still, seems like much longer than a week-ish ago.  Whatever...

1. I know I've talked about my monthly meal planning before, but lately it had just become too much for me.  So we'd been more like flying-by-the-seat-of-our-pants.  Never works out quite as well.  So, inspired by my sis who does weekly meal plans, on Sunday I decided to sit down and plan meals just for that week.  Let me tell you, 100% better!  It is much less overwhelming and a lot more flexible than the whole monthly thing, so I can definitely see it sticking.  I actually enjoy it now and it's nice to get input from the kids and Andy for what sounds good to them.  Plus it makes my days so much easier when I know what I'm making for dinner!

1. Took the kids to the zoo.  On the Tuesday before Ira started school on Thursday, we decided to go to the zoo.  I let Ira pick what we did there (since it was his "final fling" and all.)  The first thing he wanted to do at the Zoo was play at the playground. Oh-kay - sure.  So he and Ruby played at the playground for a good hour or so.  We ate a picnic lunch, then they played a little more before we finally got around to seeing any animals.  I paid a dollar so that Ira and Ruby could feed the giraffe.  It was SO awesome.  I had to help Ruby, so I have no pictures of her (Ira tried to take one and captured maybe the top 2 inches of her head) but I love the picture that I got of Ira!

Sweet little boy wanted to hold his sweet little sister.  She doesn't always oblige so kindly to his "affections" but she definitely did then!

2. Celebrated my dad's birthday with all the family.  It is so fun to see my dad be the "center of attention" because he's more of a behind-the-scenes kind of guy usually.  Glad we could help him celebrate his day!

3. Celebrated our 9th anniversary of getting engaged.  What can I say?  Time flies when you're having fun!

4. Went bananas.  Well, sort of, my younger sis had mentioned how they always have bananas on hand because they are like the cheapest fruit, and I was like, "wait what?! - I have so been missing out!"  So now we go through 2 bunches of bananas at our house every week.  And we usually need more by Friday...

5. Ira started school.  Yes, I am now the parent of a 1st grader!  Ira really seemed to grow (physically) and mature (emotionally) a TON this summer.  I really do miss his company while he's at school, but it's also nice to have some quiet time to myself while Ruby is napping.  We've settled back into the "school-year routine" pretty effortlessly (thank goodness!)  Though, I still hate waking up early... blech...

6. Cleaned the house (for no reason, other than that it needed it.)  Usually, I only like to really clean my house when I have some reason to (like someone coming over.)  Alas, last Friday I knew that I needed to clean, so I thought I might invite my sister and her family over to at least make it "worth it."  Why have a sparkling clean house if there's no one other than you (and your hubs) to notice/care.  Yeah, our house will probably never get cleaned when we're old and such (why clean, no one will see it?...)  They couldn't come out Friday, but I sucked it up and cleaned anyway.  And it turns out that they could come on Saturday, so it was worth it in the end.

7.  Rain, glorious rain!  I take no credit for that one, but I was glad to see it happen.  Although now the bermuda grass has taken an even stronger hold on my flower garded... Pffftttt.

8.  Biking.  In the evenings after dinner, we've been going on bike rides.  Andy pulls Ruby in the bike trailer and Ira and I ride our own bikes.  That kid is a HORSE.  He is definitely more in shape than I am!  I have to try to keep up with him.  So far we've done: 5.5 mile, 4 mile, and 7 mile rides.

9. Cat Chat.  My sister gave us "The Ultimate One" and a promo copy of "Amazing Angels & Super Saints/ The Mass Comes Alive."  We ALL love them.  Ira and Ruby sing all the songs and ask for them in the car (and in the house) all the time now.  Ruby will say "Listen J-e-s-u-s!"  I really enjoy them as well and find much comfort and peace in the lyrics of the songs.  It is great to have great music to listen to.

10. Rubyisms.  "Tomo leche" when she wants to drink milk at night (and only then oddly enough.) "Don't get it all gone! (or "Don't drink it all gone!")  WhenEVER ANYone handles ANY kind of food/drink - this is what we hear.  Not sure what makes her so paranoid about it, but it is really funny, because you can nearly guarantee that if you pick up your water, or pick up the cheese to put it away, or let Ira have a drink of your water in the car, she's going to yell.

11. Work perks.  Andy brought home a HUGE roll of paper that was going to get thrown away on his job.  It is essentially construction paper.  The kids have had a blast drawing big pictures together.  I thought this picture (of Ira and Ruby holding hands on the top of a hill) was too cute not to share!

I think that's about it for this week.  Just wait till next week - I've got a doozy of an"Ira-ism" to share!

Random bullets...

So it's been a few weeks since I've updated the blog, which means that I have been living my life and thinking about posting on the blog, but not actually doing it. Then I get overwhelmed because of "everything" I would need to do to update it, then I procrastinate blogging until "next week."  But my house is clean (for once) and Ruby is sleeping and Ira is in school, so what have I left to do but blog...or sleep... I suppose I'll blog.  I'll fore-warn you that it may be random and incomplete, but it's a start and then hopefully next week I'll return to the "regularly scheduled" What I Loved posts.

• Ira went to Totus Tuus for the first time this summer.  He totally loved it!  We hosted the girls from the team again this year.  It is always fun to get to know young Catholics on-fire for their faith.  They give me hope!
• My best friend from high school, Laura, came down for a visit during Totus Tuus week.  We talked and talked and talked.  It was so nice to spend some time with her before life gets busy again with school (she's a teacher.)
• That same week, (what is it about Totus Tuus week and bad things happening in Andy's family?) Andy's mom ended up in the hospital because of stomach pain.  We spent many hours up at the hospital and the kids were troopers about it.  She ended up having to have a laproscopic surgery done to straighten out a "knuckle" in her small intestine that was causing an obstruction.  The whole thing was a pretty miserable experience for her, but luckily, she's recovered well and quickly!
• Successfully used my new pressure canner to put up some tomatoes for fall/winter/spring.  My first try, I didn't know what I was supposed to be listening for with the "jiggler", plus I used the raw-pack method, which left me with not enough product in the jar to create a hermetic seal and not enough certainty about the canning process that I just decided to freeze that batch. (the Mirro canners don't jiggle constantly, only 2-3 times per minute they let out a big puff of steam - of course, it couldn't say that in the directions... I had to dig that up on the internet)  I wasn't going to give up though, so the next week, I successfully canned 9 pints of tomatoes.  We have enough for about 4 months now, but I think I'm going to have to supplement with store-bought tomatoes (that I'll can myself) that I saw on sale the other day.  Our tomato plants are looking pretty dried up at this point.  
• Went to the Catholic Family Conference as a family for the first time.  Ira really enjoyed the Kids Program and Andy and I enjoyed many of the talks.  It was kind of a crazy weekend because we also had an out-of-town wedding to go to on Saturday afternoon/evening, but we made the most of it and made it through the weekend and hope to go back next year.
• Went to my cousin's wedding (whom I haven't seen for 6 years!)  It was so good to see family and celebrate!
• Sent the kiddos to Grandma and Grandpa's for the weekend!  Andy's parents had all 4 of their grandkids (6,6,3,&2) over for a fun-filled time (Fri afternoon 'till Saturday night.)  Andy and I went out to dinner and then had movie certificates to use.  So we decided to go see a movie for the first time in probably 5 years.  I regret (and hesitate) to inform you that we saw "The Campaign" because we'd seen previews and thought it looked funny.  Although there were some funny parts, it was filthy and raunchy and just downright uncomfortable oftentimes.  I'm honestly embarrassed that we saw it.  What was even worse was that the theater was packed and everyone else seemed to think that the whole thing was just a riot.  I guess that's what I get for going off previews alone and not looking up reviews in advance.  Epic. fail.  Lesson learned (for 5 years from now when we go see a movie in the theater again.)  We did enjoy sleeping in the next day and then went to lunch and worked in the yard.  It was a nice break, but we were both ready to see the kids by Saturday night!
• "Dreaded" the end of summer.  Unlike last year, where Ira and I were BOTH ready for school start, I was really sad to see him go back to school this year.  He's growing up and maturing into such a neat little boy that I truly miss having him around during the day.  I didn't spend as much one-on-one time with him as I would've liked to this summer, but we really did have a great summer with him at home.
• Rubyism: "I need a dan-daid.  My tummy's on wrong."
• Prepped the garden for fall, leaving only the tomatoes, green peppers, green beans, and okra still standing.  The squash bugs had obliterated the zucchini and were moving on to the cukes and melons, so we just pulled it all up and sprayed with malathion to try to curb the problem.  Seems to have worked so far.
• Need to get all the fricking bermuda grass out of my front flower bed before it completely swallows up my flowers.  I was on top of it until mid-June, then it laughed and said "you think you can stop me, watch this!" and proceeded to fill in most of the flower garden.  We've worked on it a little bit, but it's such an obnoxious task that part of me just really wants to mow it all down and say "to heck with it."  Real mature, I know.
• Andy and Ira had "boy time" on the weekend before school started.  They camped out (in the backyard) and then went fishing.  Ira positively loves "boy time" and I think Andy enjoys it a lot too!  (Ruby and I cleaned and played and painted our fingernails & toenails while they were gone.)

Well, I think that catches you up for the most part.  Now I can go back to just being "whelmed" about posting.  Hopefully you'll hear from me again next week with a normal "What I Loved" post.

What I Loved About Last Week 9th Edition

Here's what I loved about last week (May 14-20):

1. Birthday.  Monday was my birthday and Andy found the most awesome card by one of my favorite children's authors, Sandra Boynton.  On the back it says "Boynton!  Trying to think of a motto since 1973."  If you haven't seen any of her books, you seriously need to go buy one right NOW.  Some of our favorites are "Moo, Baa, La La La," and "The Bellybutton Book."  Andy also made my day by having flowers delivered.  It was such a sweet surprise and totally made my day.  We took the kids to a Japanese Steakhouse (where they do tapanyaki cooking right there at your table.)  Although initially scared by the fire, Ira recovered nicely and said "awesome; that is so cool; and, how did you do that?!" for the rest of the dinner.  Ruby was pretty enthralled too.  They both had fun using chopsticks with little helpers on the end (plastic pieces that made them almost like a clothespin.)  I hadn't been there since my 20th birthday (long long ago) so it was fun to go eat some delicious food and see a fun show again (and of course the mom in me loved sharing the experience with my kids as much as anything.)

2. Fieldtrip. I helped chaperone Ira's kindergarten class' trip to the zoo.  It truly was a ZOO!  I only had 3 kiddos in my group (Ira included) but the zoo was so busy with other schools' fieldtrips that about the only thing I did all day was make sure that I hadn't lost one of my kids.  By the end of the day, I had a killer headache and a backache to boot, but it was fun getting to see Ira with his friends.

3.  We went through some boxes at my parents' house last week and found our old Geo Safari with about half a dozen sets of cards.  Nobody else wanted it, so I snatched it up thinking that it would entertain Ira this summer.  Boy oh boy, is it entertaining!  We've been learning all kinds of things from Geography to Spanish and Landmarks to Puzzles.  He loves playing it by himself, but we've also had fun playing 2 players.  I foresee the Geo Safari getting lots' o' use this summer!

4. Rubyisms.  Sheesh, this is becoming almost a weekly feature, but I tell you what, the girl cracks me up.  Her latest are: pree-dee-ah-school (preschool - we drive by her cousin's preschool on our way to pick Ira up from school.)  And then there's this: We duh duh duh cleem uh def uh Lord, we da cleem uh resuhrehtion, an you not tome a din, an you not tome a din!"  (The Mystery of Faith that we sing at church "We proclaim your death oh Lord, and profess your Resurrection, until you come again.")  She is also really into singing "O Saving Victim" at the top of her lungs all throughout the day.  It's a hoot that I've yet to catch on video (because although she sings it at the top of her lungs, she gets all shy about it when you start paying attention to her.)

5. Schooooooooooooool's ooooouuuuut for Summer!  (did anyone else's mom sing that on the last day of school each year?.... just mine?.... hmmm...)  Ira finished kindergarten on Friday and (surprise of surprises (to him at least)) he gets to go to 1st grade next year!  I am SO excited about having him home for the summer!  We have plans to do a little learning and a lot of playing and swimming and I CAN'T WAIT!

6. Lawn and Garden. We spent all day Saturday outside work work workin'.  I weedeated and mowed the WHOLE lawn (we have a BIG lot - like over 1/2 an acre.)  The weedeater must have rattled every muscle in my body because I'm achin' like bacon right now (does bacon ache?) but the lawn sure does look nice.  While I lawned (should totally be a word), Andy gardened (see what I did there, lawned... gardened... forgive me, I'm apparently a little loopy today.)  He built structures for our cukes, tomatoes, watermelon, and cantaloupe to climb.  It turned out pretty awesome and we can't wait to see how it'll work out this summer.

The garden all but done (just need to put straw down between the last 3 rows.)

Not really a picture of our lawn, but look at how big my flowers are getting! 

 7. Kids in the same bed.  The kids had (because they broke their streak last night) gone to bed in the same bed for the last 3-4 nights very well.  It helps that we completely wore them out all weekend.  I guess we'll have to see what this week brings to see if it was luck or learning that led to those 4 nights...

With that, I'll bid you adieu!  Thanks for hanging with my goofiness this week!

What I Loved About Last Week 7th Edition

Here's what I loved about the week of April 30th - May 6th.

1. The scent of roses wafting through the house.  When we have the windows open, I often catch the smell of the rosebushes in the front of the house.  I don't like the smell of rose-scented things (lotions/soaps/perfumes) but there is nothing like the smell of a fresh garden rose (our yellow ones are especially fragrant.)

2. My Kitchen Aid Mixer.  It was our wedding present from my parents and although it's almost 7 years old, it still works (and looks) like it's brand new.  The kids and I used it this week to make pretzels and it made the whole process SO simple.  Well, as simple as baking can get with a 6 year old and a 2 year old bicker over pouring in every. single. ingredient.  Not that that frustrates me or anything.

3. Mulberry Vinaigrette.  Andy was feeling all hunter-gatherery and foraged some Mulberries from a vacant lot that backs up to ours.  Then he made them into the most delicious vinaigrette to eat on our home-grown lettuce.  Pretty cool if you ask me.

4. Ira. Ira. Ira.  One morning before school, he was looking at some papers on the desk.  One of them was a sign up sheet for Room Mothers.  At the bottom it said "Please circle which grade you would like to serve" then had each grade listed out: K, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6.  So he says to me, "Mom!  Look what the teachers are doing this year!  What grade do you think I should be in next year?  I'm pretty smart."  And in case that isn't clear as mud - he thought that he was going to get to pick what grade he'd be in next year.  Love that kid!

5. Diary Fieldtrip.  Each year Andy's mom's kindergarten class takes a field trip to their dairy farm.  Before Andy was in Kindergarten, he got to go along.  Before Ira was in school, he got to go.  Now Ruby gets to go.  Marilyn delights in showing off her grandchildren and her students love getting to meet the kids behind the stories she tells at school.  Not to mention it's just a little more in-depth of a look at the dairy than we get when we go to get milk each week.  The kids get to see a cow being milked, feel a milker, feel fresh, warm milk, see and learn about the milk tank, bottle feed a calf (pronounced "kev" for those who've never been around a dairyman), take a hay-rack ride, climb in a tractor, a combine, and a swather, and eat an ice cream sandwich.  Ruby was a little shy at first, but after awhile she was marching around acting like she owned the place.  She put her finger in the milker twice (that's a big deal, a lot of kids are scared of that) and ended up being in each of the 3 kindergarten classes' pictures (with "Crampa Beel")  She's such a goose!

6. Swimming.  It was hot on Friday, so I set up the kids' pool for the first time.  They LOVED playing in it.  Seriously, they were in there for no less than 2 hours.  I foresee LOTS of swimming this summer for those two.

7. Cream in my tea.  I've been skimming the cream off the top of our milk and using it in my tea in the mornings.  It adds such richness!!  I always wondered why my friend Jolene's tea tasted so much better than mine (despite the fact that we had the same tea.)  Turns out, cream vs. milk makes a BIG difference.  Yummy!

8. Playing Monopoly.  Monopoly has LONG been my favorite game to play.  When my younger sis and her hubby come over, we like to play games.  We usually rotate between Canasta, Pitch, International Rummy and Monopoly.  For the longest time we avoided Monopoly because it took FOREVER.  Well, it turns out, if you play by the REAL rules (not house ones like putting money in free parking, selling houses/hotels back for the same price you bought them, giving immunities when trading properties, etc.) it actually doesn't take any longer than any other game.  So we played on Friday night.  My brother-in-law royally trounced all of us, but it was still tons of fun.  I got out first, so I made the pizza (because it's not a get-together with my sister if we don't make a second dinner at 11pm.)  Life is good!

9.  Saturday.  It was just a great day.  Andy and Ira got up early and went fishing.  They brought home enough fish for lunch.  After lunch, I got to go shopping for new clothes by myself!  Andy watched the kids and put in the rest of our garden (tomatoes, peppers, herbs, melons, cucumbers...)  I shopped 'till I dropped and for once had WONDERFUL luck.  I feel like a new woman!  It's so nice to have "pretty" clothes to wear each day.  Maurices and Vanity were where I got most of the clothes.  Those stores just "get me."  I never have luck at the department stores because I feel like all the clothes are either way too young (and tight and short and skinny) for me or way too old (and baggy and dull and big.)  Although I did pick up a few pairs of shorts at the dept. stores (and another 2 lightweight cardigans - that I now have 4 of because I love them SO much - the picture in the link really doesn't do them justice) I got about a dozen (I really needed clothes) short sleeve/sleeveless shirts between Maurices and Vanity.  Vanity also had some really GREAT camis/layering tank tops that were both long and had modest necklines.  I am excited that all the clothes I found are both stylish and modest.

10. Birthday party.  We celebrated my Mother-in-law's birthday on Sunday and had a wonderful time.  The kids got to play with their cousins, we ate lots of delicious food, and just had a great time in general.

School Days

As many of you know, Ira started Kindergarten this year.  Here are my reflections on the subject in general.

When I found out last year that Kindergarten would be all day for Ira, I cried for days.  Seriously.  But then over the course of the year, things changed.  I still wholeheartedly believe that it's ridiculous for kindergarten. to be an all day affair.  I think that 5 year olds would be much better off if they had a half day of school and a half day of play.  But over the course of the last year, I became comfortable with the fact that come August, Ira would be in school all day.  And at some point during the summer, I started to look forward to school starting.

Because you know what, Ira was R.E.A.D.Y.  He was "bored" (my words not his) at home.  It was like no matter how much I did (and I'll admit, I could have tried harder), I couldn't keep him content.  He would read in his room for an hour and a half each day (sometimes more), but then the rest of the day, he just wanted something to do - something to sink his teeth (and by teeth I mean brain) into.  So yes, I began to look forward to him being able to have that constant mental stimulation that school would provide.  And the structure too.

You see, Ira is the opposite of me.  I like it when my days are completely unplanned, unfettered.  We don't have a schedule.  A routine certainly, but our days are pretty "free-spirited."  Well, in reflecting about it, I came to realize that Ira is a schedule kind of dude.  He likes to have something to do all day and thrives in structure and schedule.  (Seriously is he my kid? - Don't get me wrong, it's not that I can't perform in a scheduled, structured environment, it's just that naturally that would not be my first choice.)  So, school is truly the perfect fit for him.

Now back to his first day of school... We double-checked all of his supplies the day before and then went bowling (his favorite thing to do) before going out to dinner at Olive Garden.  It was a nice good-bye to summer.  We also made up a schedule (gasp! me?!  I know...) for school mornings to make sure that we had plenty of time and didn't feel rushed in the mornings (I hate feeling rushed.)  So, I woke him at 6:50 and he was quite cheery and excited for the day.  Then the trips to the bathroom began.   

You see, the week before school started Ira got really really sick (sicker than I'd ever seen in 5+ years) (a trip to the ER, bloodwork, bloody stools, a CT scan, (concerned about appendicitis), and 4 days of 103 fever, we find out it was just a bug... a nasty nasty bug.)  Even a week later, Ira was still complaining of his waist hurting (his bowels I'm sure) and still had diarrhea.  He was in so much pain that morning that I wasn't positive I should send him to school.  But I took a chance guessing that once he got to school it would take his mind off of it - which thankfully I was right about.

So back to trying to eat breakfast that first morning.  Ira probably had to get up and go to the bathroom 7 times.  He didn't even finish his breakfast, and I only got halfway through "Oh the Places You'll Go."  We hardly had time to take pictures before heading out the door at 7:45.  Yeesh, and I said I hated rushing...

However, Ira's spirit wasn't dampened by the whole thing and he had a WONDERFUL first day of school.  I didn't even cry (surprised even myself there.)  He came out of school with the hugest smile on his face and couldn't wait to tell me all about his day.  It was wonderful to see him so happy and excited.  I am truly excited for him.  And it's amazing how much time I feel like I have during the day now.  I love having one on one time with Ruby.  It's so nice to have time during the day to myself too.  I've gotten a lot done around the house lately!  And it's fun to go pick him up each afternoon and hear how his day went.  My little boy is growing up and I couldn't be more proud!

And, lest you think I would subject you to an entire post without pictures.  Here are his pictures from the first day of school!

Seriously, could he look any more excited/proud?!

 With sissy...sort of...

 At his desk.

 Finding his name on the SmartBoard.

Getaway

Ira before Kdg. screening

The end of February was a first for me, I went to an out-of-town wedding.  Can you believe I've never done that before?  Well, I haven't. 

Andy's cousin got married in Kansas City and Andy was a groomsman.  We left on Friday after Ira's Kindergarten screening (went well, by the way) and got back right around bedtime on Sunday.  The kids did great traveling; and the rehearsal dinner, wedding, reception, and dance were a BLAST!

While Andy was out taking pictures with the bride & groom/ wedding party, his folks and the kids and I went to Crown Center and Union Station.  Ira was pretty excited to get to see a real live train station and we got some awesome chocolate at the Chocolate Factory at Crown Center.  Of course, I didn't remember to take any pictures while we were out and about, but I do have a few from the weekend. 

Ruby, Andy and I at the Reception (Ira was there too,  he was just too busy schmoozing with everyone else to stop for a picture!)

The best picture we could get of the 4 of us.  (Notice Ira's eyes, I'll talk about them in a future post.)

Andy's parents (love them!)

This is how Ruby crawls whenever she has a dress/long shirt on!

Ira showing off the new moves Dayna (left) taught him.  He and Dayna became best buddies at the dance!

Bill & Marilyn with Ira at Fritz's at Crown Center.  (Again, notice Ira's eyes)

 All in all, it was a great weekend, but we were DEFINITELY ready to get home by the time it was over!

A moment of silence please...

On Sunday, September 12, the Catholic School that Ira will be going to had an open house after Mass. We decided to go over to see the school (Andy went there, I'd never seen it though) and let Ira see his classroom and meet his teacher for next year.

I love the little school and think that it'll be a great place for Ira. The kindergarten teacher seemed really nice, and I asked her what times kindergarten was (we were still unsure about whether to send Ira to morning or afternoon kindergarten.) I'm not sure if it was entirely visible to everyone else in the room, but I'm pretty sure that my heart shattered on the floor when she said, "Oh we go all day now!"

A moment of silence for me while I pick up the pieces of my broken heart please...

Now, I understand in my head (and as a former teacher) the "reasoning" behind all day kindergarten. There are not enough hours in the day (especially in half-day kdg.) to cover all of the topics that students are required by the state to know. However, I vehemently disagree that the solution is making kids (especially 5 year olds) go to school for longer. The state needs to loosen up their requirements for one thing. And throwing money and additional time at our schools has done nothing to improve the quality of education that our children are getting. I would argue that kids today are dumber than ever because of the "quality education" the state supposedly provides (and forces all who want to be accredited to provide as well.) I just think that it is totally unnecessary and quite frankly unhealthy for 5 year-olds to be in formal schooling for 8 hours every day. And I think that the reason it is so common for schools to have it is mainly to provide daycare, which is just ridiculous. A good portion of the population is being punished so that another portion of the population can have free daycare for their 5 year-olds. It's just wrong!

I have given some thought to home schooling Ira, but right now, I really don't think it's God's will for us to do that next year. So slowly but surely, I am trying to come to terms with Ira being gone all day next year. Again, trying to let go and let God...

I can read!!

Despite (or maybe because) of my background in teaching, I have NEVER wanted to push the issue of "learning" at home. In my opinion, the only "education" that kids need in their 5 years at home before schooling begins is the education they get from playing. That's not to say that we don't read to our kids and that we haven't talked to Ira about letters and letter sounds (when he's shown interest.) Because we certainly have, it's just never been anything formal.

That approach, coupled with a very smart kid (if you ask me) led to this proud August day when Ira read "Put Me In the Zoo" all by himself. Now just so you know, I don't think we've ever read this book to Ira (do you know how many hundred books we have (thanks to my background in teaching!)) So he really had to actually read it. I am SO PROUD of my little boy who is getting to be bigger and bigger every day!

Something's Gotta Give

Sorry it’s been awhile since I blogged. I’ve been introspecting a lot lately. A lot of it has to do with the fact that Ira will be starting Kindergarten in the fall of 2011. To you, that may seem like a long time away, but to me – it seems like it’s just right around the corner. I absolutely cannot believe that my time at home with my precious boy is drawing to a close. I’ve already spent nights crying about it to Andy. I can’t even fathom what I’ll be like next summer. I’ll be a mess, that’s all I can say. I know that some parents put their kiddos in daycare/preschool at 4, but I’ll be honest and say that I am SELFISH and I want my little boy home with ME. I will reluctantly give him to you when he is 5. But you’re not getting him until then! For the next year and three months - he is still mine. And it might sound trite, but I am going to CHERISH him until then.

So, as I said, I’ve been introspecting. And as the title indicates – something’s gotta give. Life has been busier since Ruby was born, obviously, that’s part of adding new children into the mix. And as I’ve blogged about before – she is not the best sleeper in the world. I thought that I would still have time during the day when it was just Ira and I because she would be napping. But that’s just not really the case. And I’m not upset about that fact. That’s part of being a mom. And that’s the whole fact of the matter. I am a MOM. I am a child of God, striving for heaven (first). I am a wife (second). And I am a mom. Those are my priorities right now – or at least that’s how I’m trying to re-order my life. Lately though, those haven’t exactly been my priorities. I spend time on Facebook, keeping up with friends. I spend time blogging and reading others’ blogs. I spend time cutting coupons and shopping for deals. I spend time watching TV, (not during the day, but still), baking, cooking, budgeting, and being a sister/daughter/friend. And there is nothing inherently wrong with any of those things. But right now, I’m finding that other things are much more important in my life.

So after a lot of thinking on the matter, I’m pretty sure I’m going to give Facebook the boot. I’m not getting off of it completely, I’ll still check in when I can. But right now, it just tempts me to waste too much of my time on things that don’t matter. And I’m pretty sure that God isn’t going to post the secret to eternal salvation on Facebook… pretty sure that’s found elsewhere. And that’s really what matters.

I’d like to keep blogging, not because I think any of you care too much about our goings on, but because I like that it’s a journal to look back on. I’ll also probably keep couponing/deal-searching, because I’m already seeing results in our budget. Plus, that’s hard to get too carried away with since we live 30 minutes out of town and don’t have the gas money to go into town much more than once a week.

And I actually want to spend more time on a few things:
-my prayer life/reading/studying about my faith

-cultivating REAL friendships… not “oh yeah, we’re friends on Facebook friendships” – but actual real friendships

-talking and doing things with my hubby (we’re pretty good about this, but it usually happens AFTER everything else gets done for the day – meaning we stay up LATE most nights) and I’d like to make it more of a priority.

-being a mommy. I know that I’ll be a mom forever, but you only get your kiddos wholly to yourself those first 5 years and I’m coming to see that those years FLY by WAY TOO FAST! I know I’ll cry on Ira’s first day of school – but I don’t want to be crying because I have regrets over the way I spent his five years with me.

With that, I think I’ll bid you adieu and get Ira up from quiet time to go play in the rain! God bless!

Story Hour

Today, Ira got to go to Story Hour for the first time! The little town just down the road from us has Story Hour every Thursday morning, and although I've been wanting to take Ira, I haven't felt the best. This week though has been so much better though, (SO much less nauseous and gaggy!) so I thought we'd give Story Hour a go!

What an incredible little program! There were probably 10 kids there, ranging from 17 months to 5 years in age. The kids got to: make block patterns, act out numbers, practice writing their names, glue leaves in a number book, have Show and Tell, play with balls in the gym, and eat a snack! (They ran out of time for the story!) Parents are welcome/encouraged to stay and participate with their kids. Let me tell you, as a teacher and a mom I was IMPRESSED! I think it's just what we've been looking for for Ira.

For one reason or another, the thought of Preschool just doesn't excite me much. I think Ira gets plenty of "schooling" at home and has numerous opportunities throughout the week to interact with other kids. I also think that 5 is plenty young to begin a regularly scheduled schooling experience. Now, that's not to say I will never send a kid to preschool (as a mom I've learned to never say never because more often than not I end up eating my words.) I just think that for now, in our current situation, there is no reason to send Ira to preschool.

This Story Hour is great though, because it gives Ira ALL these opportunities to learn things like: listening to the teacher, sharing with other kids, waiting your turn to talk, using "glude sticks", practicing writing, standing in line, sitting at a table working on an activity for a specified amount of time, etc... It's just the right amount of structure for him, and it's just one day a week for an hour and a half. (I like it too b/c it's low commitment - "come when you can" is their philosophy - which works well since I have "Together" every 2nd and 4th Thursdays.) And it sounds like they do a couple of field trips each year as well!

As you can tell, I'm pretty excited about this. I've been wanting something for Ira to do during the week that gives him a little bit of structure and a little bit of practice for school and I think this fits the bill perfectly. We're pretty unstructured as far as activities go at our house, we just kind of do whatever, whenever. If it's nice outside, sometimes we go outside, sometimes we don't. Sometimes we spend the entire day playing trains, sometimes we spend the entire day doing a million different things and at the end of the day the house is a TOTAL loss. So as I said, I think this is going to be a great thing.

Lastly, here's a couple of pictures of Ira before going to Story Hour. I can't believe how big my little boy has gotten!