Journal: January 24

Outside my window: grey and cold.  I hate winter.  Especially winter in January and February.

Clothing myself in: jeans, navy blue long sleeve shirt with turquoise camisole underneath.  It's pretty much my uniform: jeans, tank top, solid colored long sleeve shirt.

Around the house: Finally got all the Christmas stuff taken down last Friday (i think?)  Slowly but surely cleaning.  I made a "schedule" for myself for each month with cleaning goals - it seems to be a step in the right direction.  Life's been a little chaotic lately with sickness and family stuff, so things have had to slide a bit, but it's nice to have goals to work towards.  Finally replaced the water pad/filter in the whole house humidifier (just one of those things I never remember to pick up/look for) I can't believe how much more comfortable the house feels.

Ruby: Gosh she's growing.  There've been so many things in the past few weeks that I've wanted to blog about regarding her, but just haven't had the chance.  She is still into coloring (especially with her markers from Christmas) and cutting paper "candy" - tiny little pieces of colored paper (that she colors after she cuts out - like .25"x.5" pieces) and hanging them on doors (with 2 foot strings of tape - also a Christmas present.)  She's also moved from playing with babies mostly to stuffed animals mostly.  Her chimpanzee is named "Doo Doo"  her dog is named "Sam."  Another monkey is "Thomas" and a big red monkey is "Sir Handle."  She's wanted her hair "like a mama" lately - i.e. I wear my hair in a low ponytail pretty much every day and now that's how she wants her hair every day.  I'm honored and humbled by how much about me she notices.  She's really into whose turn it is to talk/not being interrupted.  For instance, Ira starts to say something as Ruby is finishing what she's saying, so she exclaims, "Ira, I was talking FIRST!"  Hopefully she will learn the ebb and flow of natural conversation soon - it's mildly annoying.  Still has the binkies - although they're like really cracked and beat up.  She says she's giving them to Mandy's baby when he/she is born - we'll see!  She's also been into who/what does and does not poop right now too.  Like, in the car, "does a tree poop?" "does a bird poop?.... why?"  and on, and on, and on.  Fascinating stuff I know...

Ira: Is in 2nd grade math right now.  Before Christmas break, his teacher called to ask if Andy and I would think about him moving up to 2nd grade math because the 1st grade stuff was just way too easy for him.  I was so impressed with her concern for Ira getting the best education and that she took the initiative to clear the logistics of it  (even as his school years continue.)  We decided that it would be good for him and sure enough, it is.  He's said a few times "Second grade math is a little harder than first grade math!" as he's doing his homework.  He was pretty thrilled that he didn't have any homework last week because the second graders were finishing first confession preparations and therefore weren't being given homework.  Score!  He's reading 5.1-5.5 level AR books.  Still loving non-fiction but also really into Magic Treehouse and Flat Stanley Worldwide Adventures as well.  We seem to have come to the other side of the "angrily resisting chores" thing - he's doing better with getting them done and accepting the consequence if he doesn't.  Although, the other night he did yell quite angrily, "Dare I say it, that's the most ridiculous rule I've ever heard!" (When I told him he could eat dinner when his toys were cleaned up.)  Now he's been trying to "engage" me in arguments with inflammatory statements like above, or "you're just a liar, that wasn't really five minutes."  It works best if I can keep calm and respond lovingly "I'm sure you feel that way" or "I love you too much to argue."  It takes a few times of saying it (and sometimes more than a few times), but when he realizes I'm not going to get involved in the power struggle, he comes to terms with whatever he's being asked to do.  Now if I can just consistently do my job and not get in my "I'm going to win this argument" mode.  Still enjoying piano lessons - we're about 15 pages from being done with the Level 1A book.  After our piano lesson yesterday, he was talking to me about something and then said, "you know, like when Father holds up the Eucharist and it turns into Jesus' body and there's that shiny light behind the host."  I was astounded.  Speechless.  What a gift he's been given!  I am so excited for him to receive the sacraments of reconciliation and communion next year!

In the kitchen: Easy Cheesy Chicken Bake, Quick Pasta Carbonara, Cavatini, and Cheese & Black Bean Enchiladas.  The theme for this week is: keepin' it simple.

Hobbies: working on a sewing project right now.  Not 100% thrilled with my design/execution, so I'll continue to tweak it before "going public."

Bringing me joy: Our impending visit to Pope Paul VI Institute.  Test results coming in abnormal (as funny as that sounds, it's a start and an indication that things are definitely not working like they're supposed to.)  My kids.  They've just been pretty good and easy to deal with lately.  Our new treadmill.  It is amazing!  We've put over a marathon's worth of miles on it already (in the less than two weeks we've had it.)  I've run in Hawaii, Rome, Japan, Texas, and New York already.  Don't know what I'm talking about?  See here.  Funny tangential story:  The night we got the treadmill, I decided to do this mountain run in Hawaii.  I ran some of it but walked a lot it because it was just really hard and then felt awful when I finished it.  I told Andy, "wow the incline thing really makes a difference!  That or I've gotten really out of shape in the last month, because I feel like I could barf."  I continued to feel horrible and when he got done running I said, "wasn't it awful" and he was like, "well, it didn't seem that bad, really."  So I thought, "man I am SO out of SHAPE.  I feel like CRAP!"  Well, I finally drug myself upstairs to bed and woke up about an hour later with the stomach flu.  And then proceeded to wake up every 60 minutes for the rest of the night.  Fun times, that stomach flu.

Thinking about: Family.

Pictures to share:

Ira ready for his first day of "Basketball Camp"  He got a shirt last week for being the best at "Chest Passes"  He was so proud!

Ruby's Sesame Street Manicure I gave her.  From left (thumb) to right: Telly, Grover, Elmo, Oscar, and Cookie Monster.

What can I say, I was bored...

What I Loved About Last Week 10th Edition

Here's what I loved about last week (May 21-27)

1. Monopoly.  I have mentioned before that Monopoly is like my very most favorite game to play.  Ira must have inherited my affinity because we've played it 4 times since school got out.  I am impressed with his math skillz while we play.  He does a great job adding up the dice, paying for properties/paying rent (took him a couple games to learn that one - he loves to get change - so he would pay $18 rent with a 500 dollar bill if I let him), and giving change.   He's still not the greatest at bidding in an auction (like, the bid is at $50 and he bids $200, but that's a pretty advanced concept I guess...)

2. Piano Lessons.  Back in the day, I taught piano to a handful of students.  I haven't taught for 3 years, but Ira mentioned something before school was over about learning to play the piano.  I told him that I would teach him if he really wanted to learn, which he said he did.  I ordered this set through Amazon.  It is what I taught with previously and really liked a lot.  It starts very simply and builds piano knowledge in a very methodical manner.  I also liked how it tied other subjects (math, history, reading,) into learning the piano.  We had our first lesson on Wednesday and I'm not sure who is more excited about him learning piano, me or him!

3. Old MacDonald.  That silly Old MacDonald.  Or at least according to Ruby.  These are the things that Old Mac' has had on his farm this week: a goosy pig, a stinky diaper, and a "gerk."  Who knew?

Now, we will proceed with things that I did NOT love about last week.

1. Hand. Foot. and Mouth. Disease.  OH. MY. GOODNESS.  Ruby came down with it on Tuesday after her nap (started with a 101 Fever.)  Wednesday morning, I noticed the sores in her mouth and by Wednesday night we had determined that it was Hand, Foot, and Mouth.  Let me tell you, it. was. horrible!  Thursday was probably one of the worst days I have EVER had as a mother.  Grumpy does not even come CLOSE to describing Ruby that day.  Miserable would have been a cakewalk compared to what she was.  ALL DAY she screamed (yes, truly, angrily, screamed) at Ira and I.  She wanted Gatorade, so I gave her Gatorade.  She took a drink, spit it out (because it burned her mouth) and screamed that she wanted milk.  So I gave her milk.  She took a drink, spit it out (burned her mouth as well.) And screamed that she wanted Gatorade... rinse... repeat...  It was like that the WHOLE day.  Every time Ira said anything, she yelled at him.  Every time I tried to help her, she yelled at me. It was awful.  And truly, I really do understand where she was coming from.  She had about 5 huge red canker sores on her tongue and probably a dozen or more sores on the roof of her mouth/back of her throat.  I cannot imagine how badly they hurt.  However, just because I understood where she was coming from did not make it easy to deal with.  Andy had to work late, so by the time he got home (after the kids were in bed) I collapsed into a puddle of nervous breakdown.  I was seriously fearful of waking up the next morning because I couldn't imagine living another day like that.  Words truly cannot describe it.

Thank heavens Friday was a lot better.  She never did get sores on her feet.  Had a few red spots on her hands and quite a few on her bottom, but none of them ever turned into gaping sores like the ones in her mouth.

Since HFMD is highly contagious, we quarantined ourselves in our house for the entire week.  Definitely hard.  Definitely not an ideal first week of summer vacation for Ira, but we survived and I did LOVE that fact!

So what did you love about last week?